Sometimes it is convenient to stop a little and reflect on our way of educating. Perhaps in doing so we realize that too often we take our role as parents too seriouslySo much so that we forget how important it is to have fun with our children.
This includes laugh, joke and enjoy the little things but also to de-dramatize those daily problems that we face with them: the spilled glass, the toys to collect or the tantrums in the park.
Perhaps, unconsciously we think or believe that by being more serious and constantly controlling what our children do we are better parents, that seriousness gives us greater authority and that it is lost when we joke or laugh.
Reality shows us every day that we are not better parents for being more authoritarian, serious or severe. There is nothing worse for learning than being under pressure from anxious parents or educators to have everything under control.
Educating with humor improves not only relationships with our children It also provides a harmonious environment, a much more relaxed teaching context that is conducive to learning. It is essential that in the family environment laughter is heard, jokes are heard and there is a certain complicity between parents and children to create lasting and stable emotional ties. In this way greater emotional well-being is generated in all members of the family.
Educating with humor allows children to experiment and explore their environment without fear of reprimands. It fosters an environment that allows them to laugh at their own mistakes and improve day by day. The key to educating with humor is to be able to laugh at ourselves, our failures, our mistakes or limitations and learn from them without fear.
There is no doubt then that educating with humor is much better than educating with severity.
- Faced with the mischief of our children less screaming and more laughter. Reflect for a moment before acting and ask yourself if what your little one just did is so serious that it deserves that reprimand that you have learned to automate before any event that is beyond your control. It's probably not that bad, and it's probably even funny.
- Less complexes and more joy. Many times our own complexes and insecurities as parents lead us to act too harshly when we feel observed, judged or criticized by third parties regarding the behavior of our children. It is not about laughing all the thanks constantly, but about taking things more calmly and less seriously.
- To de-dramatize. It is convenient not to make a drama of everything that our children still do not know how to do. It is normal for things to fall out of their hands as children, get dirty eating or get frustrated at any setback.
If we learn to educate with humor, we will be able to face all these difficult situations with more confidence in ourselves and in our children. Let's not forget that a sense of humor is a display of maturity and intelligence.
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